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Top adoption and orphan info websites: Dave Thomas Foundation for Adoption

Focusing on adoptions from the foster care system, the Dave Thomas Foundation for Adoption  website provides several comprehensive (and free) guides to adoption.  Finding Forever Families, a Step-by-Step Guide to Adoption, is published in English and in Spanish.  There's also a separate version for Canadian adoptions.  A post-adoption guide is available in English.
You will also find information about financial assistance for adoptions.
Dave Thomas Foundation for Adoption describes its mission:  "We believe that we have a responsibility to be the voice of foster care adoption, so that every child finds a family. We exist to find homes for children who are waiting to be adopted from foster care in North America. In the process, we work to inform adults who may have misperceptions about foster care adoption that keep them from getting involved. Through the money we raise, we are able to provide free educational resources, promote awareness, assist policymakers and employers, and support adoption professionals and agencies throughout the United States and Canada to ensure that every child finds a forever home."
Goals:  "Every child deserves to live in a safe, loving and permanent family.  No child should linger in foster care or leave the system at age 18 without a permanent family of his or her own.  Every child is adoptable."

Big Family Mission provides love and hugs for children who will never have the opportunity to be adopted.

Top adoption & orphan info websites: U.S. State Department's website on inter-country adoption

Thinking of adopting a child from another country?  You will find an excellent guide to inter-country adoption on the U.S. State Department's Inter-Country adoption website.  The website provides up-to-date information on adoption requirements from many different countries.
Each year thousands of U.S. citizens adopt children from abroad, and many families in other countries adopt U.S. children.
Inter-country adoption is governed by both the laws of the country in which the child lives and the country in which the adoptive parents live. 
Under U.S. law, there are two distinct inter-country adoption processes: the Hague Convention process and the non-Hague Convention process. Which process you will follow will depend on whether or not the other country involved is also a party to the Hague Convention. This website guides you through and answers your questions about these processes.


Big Family Mission ministers to Russian orphans who may never have the chance to be adopted.





Top orphan & adoption info websites: Adoptive Families Magazine

Adoptive Families, the award-winning national adoption magazine, is a leading adoption information source for families before, during, and after adoption.
On the Adoptive Families website, you will find a wealth of information about adoption and may access some of the articles published in the printed version of Adoptive Families Magazine.  The website provides many links to adoption information, as well as sections about books, FAQs, groups, events, blogs, and experts on adoption.
The website also provides a listing of adoption professionals by state for those adopting in the USA.
The website gives you a "taste" of what Adoptive Families Magazine is all about.  Those who wish to learn more about adoption may wish to subscribe to the magazine.


Big Family Mission ministers to Russian orphans who may never have the chance to be adopted.

Top orphan and adoption info websites: Families for Russian and Ukrainian Adoption


With chapters across the US and members around the world, Families for Russian and Ukrainian Adoption provides  international adoption support resources for families completed through adoption in Eastern European and Central Asian countries. FRUA provides a community that nurtures children and supports parents, family and adoption education resources, and the world-class FRUA National Education Conference.


The adopted children of FRUA's families come from all former Soviet bloc countries and republics, including Russia, Ukraine, Kazakhstan,  Bulgaria, Belarus, Romania and many more.  FRUA believes that every child deserves a forever family and celebrates the rich heritage of our children's birth countries. Their Orphan Support efforts ensure we never forget the children left behind in those orphanages.


From it's beginnings in 1994 as a local Washington DC parent group to its growth as an international, multi-chapter support resource, FRUA continues to focus on the following goals:
* To improve the lives of children
* To strengthen families
* To share the culture and heritage of our children
* To provide peer group support for our children
* To provide peer group support for parents
* To promote a reality-based perception of our children.



This is an excellent website for those who have adopted or plan to adopt from Eastern European countries.


Big Family Mission ministers to orphans in Russia who may never have the opportunity to be adopted.



Register now for 2012 National Adoption Conference

     We recently featured the National Council for Adoption as one of our favorite websites for information about adoptions.  The 2012 National Adoption Conference is coming up very soon now:  June 13-16, in National Harbor, MD, near Washington, DC. 
     One day of the conference is set aside for prospective adoptive parents.
     Based on feedback from the 2011 conference, this year’s conference will be centered around how adoption service providers, adoptive parents, government officials, etc., can work together to get back to the Heart of the Matter - children who need families!
     The professional sessions will be child-focused and client-centered. NCFA asks all participants to lay aside self-interests, collaborate, and do whatever it takes to fix what is wrong and fight for what is right. NCFA wants this conference to be one of excellence where we provide hope-filled strategies, prepare agencies and families for success, and celebrate adoption and its core values/roots.
Prospective Adoptive Parents Day sessions are guaranteed to boost your knowledge about the adoption process, adoption options, and resources available to you both pre- and post-adoption. You will have the opportunity to get your individual questions answered by adoption experts. You will hear personal stories from adopted individuals, birthparents, and adoptive parents.  The 2012 National Adoption Conference will be held from June 13–16. Professional sessions are Wednesday-Friday, June 13-15 and Prospective Adoptive Parents Day is Saturday, June 16. All sessions will be held at the Gaylord National Resort and Convention Center just minutes outside of Washington, DC.
For more information and to register, please visit NCFA's website:  https://www.adoptioncouncil.org/

Big Family Mission ministers to Russian orphans who will never have the opportunity to be adopted.

Top orphan & adoption info websites: National Council for Adoption


     Founded in 1980, the National Council For Adoption (NCFA) is an adoption advocacy nonprofit that promotes a culture of adoption through education, research, and legislative action.
     Their areas of focus are infant adoption, adoption out of foster care, and intercountry adoption. Passionately committed to the belief that every child deserves a nurturing, permanent family, they serve children, birthparents, adoptive families, adoption agencies, U.S. and foreign governments, policymakers, media, and the general public as the authoritative voice for adoption.
     On NCFA's website, families interested in adoption will find an excellent listing of resources and information.  Families are also invited to participate in the "intercountry adoption journey", a training program developed in cooperation with the Council on Accreditation (COA) and the U.S. Department of State.
     The original Intercountry Adoption Journey 1.0 launched in February 2008 as one of the first Hague certification programs offered to parents and adoption professionals. By January 2011, NCFA had certified more than 10,000 adoptive parents and adoption professionals through its Hague-compliant online training. NCFA's Hague-compliant training has been recognized by many accredited adoption agencies, as well as by adoption authorities in several Hague and non-Hague nations.    
      Families are invited to become members of NCFA.  NCFA's Adoption Advocates have a unique opportunity to unite with a community of people who are passionate about adoption and share the belief that every child deserves a loving, permanent family. 
     NCFA members will help make a difference in the lives of thousands of children waiting to be adopted and play a key role in promoting a culture of adoption in our nation and around the world through advocacy, social networking, blogging, and sharing with others the personal impact of adoption in their lives.
     NCFA welcomes all who share in the belief that every child deserves a loving, permanent family. Our members include adopted individuals, birthparents, adoptive parents, families, social workers, students, and adoption professionals from all walks of life.


Big Family Mission ministers to children in Russia who will never have the opportunity to get adopted.

Family in Siberia adopts 4 children they had never met


Pastor Andrey and Marina (in Siberia) prayed for, loved, and adopted 3 brothers and their sister before they had ever seen the children.  Back row, from left, Nadya (adopted), Anita, Grisha, Nikita, and Timothy (3 adopted brothers).  Front row, Yura, Andrey, Marina, Pastor Andrey, and Alina.

Please read this wonderful and encouraging testimony, an excerpt from our Big Family Mission newsletter for May:

•           Three brothers and their sister, ages 3 to 8, living in different orphanages in western Siberia, miles from their hometown; 
•           Their mom and dad: drug addicts, and their father died from drug abuse;
•           Pastor Andrey Khoroshchenko, Novokuznetsk, Siberia, first learned of this family when he buried the children’s father, over a year after the government placed the children in orphanages.
Pastor Andrey remembers his visit to house that had once been home for the four children:  “We saw a severe picture: small house, two beds and a sofa, some dishes in the kitchen. Nothing else.  Drunken people, dirt, cold.  The outdoor wooden toilet had been burned to heat the house.  We learned parents had been using drugs and drinking for several years. Then we were told that there were four children, who lived in an orphanage for the last year.”
Thus begins the story of how Andrey and his wife Marina grew to love and then started the adoption process for the four children they had never met. 
Pastor Andrey continues the story:  “As we worked with drug addicts, we saw a lot of destroyed families and abandoned children.  We also worked in orphanages so we knew very well the future of the four children.
“Marina wanted to adopt a child, so when we learned about the four children, we started praying. We prayed for several months and tried to decide how we could help those children. Only one thing was clear to us: God wanted us to minister to these children. We had never seen them. They had never seen us.
“I called to the orphanage and was told that the children had been moved to another city, Anzhero-Sudzhensk, and lived in different orphanages. We started gathering documents. Everything went quickly; we had no problems.  Then came our interview with the social committee of the city.  They told us that they had been known us for several years, that our church helped a lot with orphans.  So they didn`t have any questions and were very happy for us that we had decided to adopt. 
“When we went to Anzhero-Sudzhensk to take our children from the orphanage, the director was very surprised to see us with all the documents and ready to take children home. They informed us we need orders from mayor of Anzhero-Sudzhensk.  Also, we needed to get children’s consent. So we had to wait.
“A month later, we could at last take children. They were taken from different orphanages to meet us. We saw each other for the first time. They looked at us very shyly, and when the social worker asked them if they wanted to come with us, they nodded their agreement. I don’t think they realized completely what was happening, who we were and what we wanted.
“That day, we welcomed to our family: Nikita, 8; Tima, 6; Nadya, 5, and Grisha, 3.
“Physician told us that Grisha had serious problems. He was born when his parents used drugs.  He had tuberculosis, chronic bronchitis, HIV, and other diseases.  We didn’t expect to hear this, but we knew that God wanted us to serve  these children.  He is Father to all orphans and widows.
“Later, we learned that Grisha was not potty-trained. He had deep wounds in his soul.  No one had loved him, nobody had needed him.  All the time he lived in fear. At night, he woke up screaming. 
“Adopting children is a ministry to God. We have about 10 years to put in them right priorities, eternal values, a love for God and His Word.  We don`t know if we can do it, but we pray to be able to do it.
“On our way back home, the children started calling us mom and dad.  I asked if they prayed at the orphanage. ‘Yes,’ answered Tima, ‘we prayed that somebody would take us from there.’   Once again I was convinced that God is not indifferent to such children.  He really loves them and wants to serve them.
“I should not forget to tell you that Marina and I already had four children, so suddenly our family had doubled.  Now, every day is noisy and joyful. One is playing, another is crying, two are arguing, and all of them want to go for a walk. Our home is like a beehive with bees. I take a rest at church, when I work. Each morning there is a line to the toilet. Each day, a new toilet paper roll. We are definitely not bored. 
“Children are good. They are obedient and not spoiled. Of course a year at the orphanage gave fruit: they say bad words to each other. But we educate them and pray and heal and serve them. We also ask you to pray for them.”
Thank you, Pastor Andrey for sharing with us this beautiful testimony of God’s love for orphans!  And, thank you to all of our Big Family partners who make it possible to embrace and encourage this family with prayers and financial support!
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